Minggu, 21 Desember 2008

Kadangkala wanita sukar memahami tingkah laku lelaki. Kadangkala mereka takut salah erti tingkah laku sesorang lelaki kepada dirinya. Oleh itu, sekiranya anda ingin mengetahuinya, bacalah entri kali ini.
Langkah si dia cuba mendekatimu…

* si dia membelanja anda makan @ minum…
* si dia ingin meminjam sesuatu dr anda atau meminta bantuan anda..langkah ini membuatkn si dia berasa dekat dgn anda.
* si dia mengajak anda menemaninya bersiar-siar & membeli belah yg mana langkah ini akn membuatkn anda menerima si dia..
* si dia mula bertanya kn tentang keluarga anda & dlm masa yg sama si dia akan bercerita tntang keluarga nya. Topik ini secara tidak lgsg akan merapatkan lagi hubungan anda berdua kerana anda berdua sudah saling mengetahui tentang diri masing2.
* si dia akn sentiasa bertanya khabar tentang anda..dengan ini anda tentunya akan berasa lebih disayangi..
* si dia akan memberikan anda hadiah istimewa. Ini menandakan si dia ingin melanjutkan hubungan yang lebih dr seorang rakan.
* si dia mula melayan anda seperti anda kekasihnya. Setiap kata-katanya juga adalah kata sayang & cinta..


Tips for Love

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It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them be free. It is selfish to blame them for your feelings.
* There are many types of love, for example: a mother-son love is different from a best friend's love, which is different from a romantic love. Don't be ashamed to tell anyone that you love your friends as much as you love anyone else in your life.
* You have to find someone that will suit you, someone you feel comfortable with - not just someone to make love to.
* As a word, love can be found worldwide and is often used to describe compassion and/or emotional attachment. Accepting those you love for who they are is part of love. You also need to learn to accept yourself before you can accept another. If you cannot love your self, how are you to love another?
* Love genuinely. Do not compare your feelings now to what your feelings were when you were with another mate. At times, we can experience rejection.
* Realize that love is a feeling that wikihow can describe and attempt to assist, but ultimately, you are the one who must take action in order to discover love.
* Do things that make the other person feel good, but do not smother them with gifts and attention.
* Consider some tips about what people in love do.
o People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavor to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it.
o Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfillment in life.
Sometimes love is all we need
Sometimes love is all we need
o Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness.
o People who are truly in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them.
o People who are truly in love are considerate of each others feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores.
o People who are truly in love look out for their mates' best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well.
o People who truly love control their anger when the other displeases them. We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways when we counting on someone else to meet our needs.
o People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mates' disappointments or failures.
o People who truly love each other treat their mates with absolute trust. Some husbands and wives torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble you will find it every time.
o People who truly love look forward to their relationship growing more meaningful and precious. They have hope. Which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. It isn't being blind and denies there are problems, but it does look beyond the problems. People who truly love each other do not allow their problems to rob them of their happiness.
* Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody who you love, that you love him/her, then you have already succeeded in love.