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How to Write a Love Letter

We feel good when we make the people we love feel happy. The person you love, who loves you in return, wants to know what he or she does that makes you happy and wants you to describe those things in your own words.
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Steps

1. Think of a time when you felt particularly moved by seeing your loved one. Recall the emotional and physical feelings you experienced in that moment.
2. Write a description of that moment including details about your feelings at the time, starting with a phrase such as, "I remember when"
3. Recall two or three other experiences when you were moved by your loved one's words or actions. Add recollections of these experiences to your letter in the same way you wrote about the first one.
4. Feel the same way you felt the very first time you met your love.
5. If you feel comfortable and it works for your relationship, add dirty things - talk about the last encounter you two had, or what you'd like to do next time you meet.
6. End with a "P.S." Make it stupid. That way, any embarrassment you feel about the letter is lessened. Hopefully, you're not embarrassed by your love letter.
7. Add a bunch of mushy gushy stuff, it's pure dynamite.


Tips

* Describe your experiences using your own words, without forcing yourself to be fancy.
* Exclude cliches from your letter.
* Exclude rhyming poetry
* Write two or three drafts until the letter sounds pleasing.
* Write your own, original words, not something you've read or heard. The most important thing of all.
* If you do quote something make sure to give credit for it.
* Read it out loud! Just because it makes sense on paper doesn't mean it will make sense when spoken.
* Try to learn calligraphy. If you think that's hard, it's not. Go to an art supply store, and get a pen, a fine nib, a thicker nib if you like, and a bottle of ink, then go slow and carefully when you write. This not only lets you think more about what you say, it also looks far more impressive.
* Do not use a sentence like "you are hot" or "I like you a lot" or something like that, it might make them a little uneasy.
* Do not explicitly refer to parts of the anatomy. This could be a turn-off. Don't use flippant language either. (Example: badunkadunks.)
* Cheesy can be okay, but be sure not to overdo it. Make it sweet, heartfelt, and true.
* Don't lie to impress. Example: Don't say "I love the way you flip your hair" to impress her/him, when thats not true. Honesty is the best policy.
* Love letters are great as a "refresher" in a relationship, possibly for a special anniversary or such.


Warnings

* Be prepared to receive a hug and a kiss after your loved one reads your letter.
* But hey, face it, not everyone is in to you. Don't write a love letter unless you're sure the guy/girl is into you. Writing something as heartfelt as a love letter may be too much for some people. Be prepared for a letdown, but don't absolutely expect it.
* Keep it simple, but hearfelt.
* Don't focus on yourself.
* If you're a girl writing a love letter to her guy, don't be surprised if he thinks it's a joke, or just says "Yeah whatever" and stuffs it into a drawer. Sometimes, guys aren't all 'lovey-dovey' like girls, and they simply might not understand the letter
* REMEMBER - If it's written down, it can be shown to other people! The best way to talk to your partner is always in person, otherwise you could find your romantic sonnet photocopied and pasted all over your school/workplace.
* While simply handing the letter over or even reading it aloud work, you can increase the overall effect by memorizing the letter and simply telling them. You gain the added advantage of being able to look them in the eye (as opposed to reading it from the paper, in which you can only make minimal eye contact), exude an incredible confidence as few people can muster the strength to say these sorts of things, and create a genuine memory together. Afterwards, you can give them the letter as a reminder of that incredible moment that you two shared.